Friends with a married couple... the husband cheated.. should I snitch?

WorldofWarcraft said:
They are both my friends. They've been married for awhile. The thing is, this girl is a good friend of mine and we've been friends for damn near 20 years and they also have kids together. I'm on a business trip abroad and this guy came a day later. We were out and about and he was hitting on the girls here. He ended up taking one of them to his hotel and believe me, I tried my best to stop him, short of knocking his ass out.

I'm friends with him, but I'm much closer to his wife. He put me in a tough spot here since we hang out regularly. I won't be able to look at him the same way and the wife would be able to tell. I won't tell the wife, but damn this guy is a piece of shit. I'm genuinely pissed because I care about her.
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if you dont mind me asking... are you married with children?
 
jgarner said:
The kids are definitely better off with families that arent lying and hiding things.


Is that what you'd want your mutual friend took do if they caught your wife getting gang fucked by a bunch of 10 inch black men behind your back? He should just mind his own business and leave you in the dark that you're kissing 10 cocks?
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This guy fears black men.
 
Unless he’s gang-affiliated, sure go for it
 
KojiW said:
OP still has not answered this question.

You claim you did everything to stop him short of knocking his ass out.

Did you warn him you will make sure his wife knows? Because that would be the most likely threat to stop him and if he still went through with it after you warned him, then fuck em. If you did tell him this and then do nothing, then you are toothless
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No, I didn't, but I should have. It didn't hit me at the time.
 
WorldofWarcraft said:
No, I didn't, but I should have. It didn't hit me at the time.
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im waiting for an answer too...

are you married with children?

edit - i just noticed you have a thread asking forum members if they would be in a relationship with a porno chick...

so you're single correct?
 
None of your fucking business. She'll find out eventually if she even gives a damn. She could be cheating on the side as well. You don't know shit about their relationship even if you are friends with them.
 
Palis said:
Imagine he finds out you're the snitch? I'd probably flay you alive if I was that guy breaking the bro code.
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What if you were the one who got cheated on and a close friend knew and said nothing?
 
number 9 said:
im waiting for an answer too...

are you married with children?

edit - i just noticed you have a thread asking forum members if they would be in a relationship with a porno chick...

so you're single correct?
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No, I'm married and have a daughter. My daughter and their eldest daughter are semi close friends.
 
You'd hope your friends would have your back for something like that, so if you are closer to her anyway then tell her.
 
Broken arrow said:
Your arguement about knowing many kids that grew up in single parent families is the equivalent of saying that kids shouldn’t wear bike helmets because you never got brain damage when you were a kid..... the fact is that you don’t know what’s best for their kids and you shouldn’t pretend you do

Also, your comment about me wanting to be told is different then whether or not a friend should tell me. It depends on a million variables that you know nothing about because you’re not in the relationship
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That's hilarious that you say you don't know what's best for the kids then fucking act like lying to your friend is what's best for their kids. What a joke. That's the shit you wind up with when you try to justify shitty behavior.


That's so laughable. Nobody wants to be kept in the dark on their spouses cheating. And to pretend like there's some situation where they wouldn't want to know is silly. Everyone would want to know, and a real friend would tell them.

The only person who isn't a real friend in this situation is the cheater who tried to compromise the integrity of his other friend.

I'm sorry but you're just a bitch if you'd hide that from someone you call a friend. There's a million different situations and all of them point to you being a bitch for not saying anything.

You tell them, maintain your integrity and let them decide what's best for their children.
 
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Dude wanted to get his fuck on.

Let him bang, bro.
 
Most people that travel a lot bang on the side, is normal.


He could have a great family life and be a great father and husband when he’s home and let out some stress when he’s traveling.

Let’s him come home and be happy.

Just let him bang bro, unless there are other issues it’s normal and actually mentally theroputic to slam some outof town strange on the side.
 
WorldofWarcraft said:
No, I'm married and have a daughter. My daughter and their eldest daughter are semi close friends.
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So you are Married with kids and want to know if it’s ok to have a side piece relationship with a chick that did past porno but want to snitch this dude out?

In other words you want to fuck his wife, and think this will let you snap into that clam.

What’s gonna happen when your wife finds out and takes off with your kids and you only see them a day or two a month


Shit won’t be so cool then will it asshat
 
90 50 said:
So you are Married with kids and want to know if it’s ok to have a side piece relationship with a chick that did past porno but want to snitch this dude out?

In other words you want to fuck his wife, and think this will let you snap into that clam.

What’s gonna happen when your wife finds out and takes off with your kids and you only see them a day or two a month


Shit won’t be so cool then will it asshat
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I'd kill people before I'd even think of cheating on my wife. We've been together 22 years. Cheaters are pieces of shit. A lot of people just can't stay with one girl for a long time, and that's fine. Just don't get married and build a family then decide to cheat.
 
Do not ever tell anyone that some one is cheating. I have before, and it was top 5 worst decisions of my life.
 
90 50 said:
Most people that travel a lot bang on the side, is normal.


He could have a great family life and be a great father and husband when he’s home and let out some stress when he’s traveling.

Let’s him come home and be happy.

Just let him bang bro, unless there are other issues it’s normal and actually mentally theroputic to slam some outof town strange on the side.
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So you'd be cool with your wife or GF cheating on you?
 
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