Disagree respectfully, old man. She said that she wants to hang out, and that "maybe I(she) can explain myself(herself)."
Either I'm in, or we're never going to talk again after thursday.
IMO, the ignoring played its part. She had to come to me, tell me that she was being a jerk, and that she is sorry, that she wants to hang out, and that she wants to explain herself.
Ignoring her further, would just make me a douche. It would bring me down to her level.
But this is leaving out some detail. Since those posts she said "absolutely, but I'm super busy, but we can get together for a chat. Perhaps I can explain myself."
I said "That sounds good. I too am quite busy this week, but I'd like to get a coffee and hear this explanation. Is thursday good for you?"
I think that I played this one perfectly.