I don't think that's the proper way to view the dilemma, but the short answer to your question is usually yes.
Women have inherent value. The greatest thing in life is to have and raise a child, and you're not going to do that without a woman. We evolve towards what we need. Women don't need to have the kinds of strengths you're outlining here-- they have the strengths they need.
Hitch made a point that has very widespread applications-- he said "Women aren't funny. Show me a woman-- have her make a joke. She can't do it right. But she doesn't need to. Women aren't funny and they don't need to be."
Women have inherent value- that is their strength. They are born with the keys to the kingdom, and because we've evolved as a species into what we call civilization, women can afford to be more choosy, work less, demand more, etc.
I don't know why you made this thread, but if you're angry at women, don't be. Recognize that yes, at this moment in world history, they live life on easy mode. Is that their fault? No. Is it unfair? Yes. So what? Build yourself, work on yourself. Make yourself.