I used to read this site called Pajiba.cpm. It was mostly a tv and movie reviews site, and it was great in introducing me to new shows and indie movies. It's definitely a left leaning site, but over the years it has gotten into crazy left territory. And i am saying this as a guy that is mostly on the left politically ((maybe center left would be a better description these days)
Anyways, i read this site's opinion pieces on the Hardwick situation, and im just absolutely fucking baffled, and would love to understand how a person with more than 2 brain cells can look at a situation like this and see it in such black and white terms. I would honestly love to have a sit down chat with this guy and pick his brain. It is scary that people think like this and have no problem passing judgment with only half a story. Here's a little something from the guy, ..
"I don’t know if these books (books about gaslighting) have always been popular, either, or if I have just now started to stumble upon them en masse, but when I read Chloe Dykstra’s Medium piece yesterday, I recognized the exact same pattern in the actions of Chris Hardwick. It was uncanny, really, and Chris Hardwick’s response to those allegations fit, almost to a tee, how these gaslighting men would react in the books. They don’t get mad; they don’t get defensive; they reframe the narrative; they make themselves look like the good guy; they make the woman look — and probably feel — out of her damn mind.
That’s exactly what Chris Hardwick did in his response to Chloe Dykstra.
It’s so transparent. I hope that social media is not so easily persuaded by what is so clearly a case of gaslighting. I don’t know what else to add except that we believe Chloe. The nice thing about these books, too, is that in the end, the men always get what’s coming to them."
"Dirty fucking pool, Hardwick. When you’re using TMZ to fight your battles, you know you’ve already lost, and guess what? These texts also prove absolutely nothing, except how shitty Hardwick is and that, perhaps, Chloe Dykstra decided to try and make amends with Hardwick seven months after they broke up because HE BLACKLISTED HER."
So there basically is nothing a man accused of abuse can do but leave society. You can't defend yourself , explain, or deny the accusations. All you can do is bend over and take it? Really? That's justice to these people?