He:
Cheats on his wife
Tells mistress he's going to show her how to do pull ups "like a man."
Tapes her hands to the pull up rings and blndfolds her against her will
Takes a photo of her naked
Tells her if she tells anyone about their affair he will disseminate the photo
Later apologizes, half-heartedly, about the threats and claims to have deleted the photo
But actually keeps it for said blackmail purposes
Later, changes his political party of 40 years to run as a "true conservative" family man candidate for the party of idiots, takes millions of dollars in dark money, brazenly flaunts his lack of transparency, and passes robust policies hurting his state's workers and poor citizens
She:
Cheats on her husband
Ya, conduct is way too identical. Just impossible to decide who is worse.