I think the problem comes from no physical skills being developed on a BJJ mat. In wrestling you are developing reflexes and body weight strength and feel. In BJJ it’s focused on manipulating joints and strategizing in trickery, but once you know the trick it has little effect on you. You can know a great wrestler is going to wrestle you but you won’t be able to do a damn thing about it.
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The great advantage of BJJ over many other forms of grappling is that the fight isn't over once the practitioner is pinned. That was an incredible insight on the part of the Gracies and led to the development of the guard. And I'll say that to me, there is nothing sexier than the armbar from closed guard.
But to say BJJ is all about trickery is ludicrous. There are plenty of guys who specialize in playing on top and can bring absolutely destroying pressure. Go watch Rafael Lovato Jr. before he retired as a champion at Bellator. What Glover did to Jan wasn't trickery. Go to YouTube and google some Roger Gracie BJJ matches or see what he did to Keith Jardine in Strikeforce.