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It’s not really a matter of being “cool with it.” If you are married to a woman, or in a deeply serious relationship with her, it’s most likely not a good sign if she’s seeking the companionship of another man—this thread is in fact about your woman “hanging out” with another man.
I understand that some people don’t want to appear insecure. Or controlling. Or that they don’t trust. However, choosing to ignore what might be a critical red flag in order to appear virtuous to your wife/gf could also be a sign of your own insecurity. Too much trust can dull your senses and leave you extremely vulnerable.
Many people on here have claimed you can’t stop a woman from cheating—and they’re right. If she’s telling you she’s going to hang out with her male friend (and you’re not invited), you’re likely already too late.
I understand that some people don’t want to appear insecure. Or controlling. Or that they don’t trust. However, choosing to ignore what might be a critical red flag in order to appear virtuous to your wife/gf could also be a sign of your own insecurity. Too much trust can dull your senses and leave you extremely vulnerable.
Many people on here have claimed you can’t stop a woman from cheating—and they’re right. If she’s telling you she’s going to hang out with her male friend (and you’re not invited), you’re likely already too late.