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Would you be cool with your wife/gf hanging out with a guy friend?
If not, would you be cool with her hanging with a gay guy friend?
No. Fuck that.
Would you be cool with your wife/gf hanging out with a guy friend?
If not, would you be cool with her hanging with a gay guy friend?
Appreciate it. Fool me twice and all that, you dig.That was my thought as well. One doesn't reappear 20 years later to incite a female to leave her boyfriend unless she led or misled him to believe there was hope. I'm glad you saw through the bullshit and made it out well
Only condition is if she invited you along. If SHE says the dude is gay you only have half the story.Would you be cool with your wife/gf hanging out with a guy friend?
If not, would you be cool with her hanging with a gay guy friend?
I tell her cool. I’m having lunch or a happy hour with a girl I know.How does the conversation go? She tells you she's meeting a guy friend for lunch. You tell her no, you're not okay with that. You're sending her the message you don't trust her. How do you get the message across in a way that doesn't come off as jealousy? Because jealousy is a turnoff. What if she's known the guy longer than you?
He needs to blow one of my gay friends to prove he’s gay.Only condition is if she invited you along. If SHE says the dude is gay you only have half the story.
You'll want to know for sure.
What do you think of girlfriends working in male-dominated workplace (eg. Law enforcement)? There are tight groups in these environments where people form relatively strong bonds between each other. Wouldn't it be weird for your girlfriend to be part of such group? It's hard to dismiss that there's nothing sexual at the back of their minds especially during after-work bonding activities like supper together and drinking.
The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. There are people (males and females) with morals and integrity. But in everyday life, relationships have their highs and their lows. In those low moments, someone who hangs around might serve as a compensation for one's dissatisfaction or even boredom. Better to not test it. Especially in marriage. A wife or a husband should not be spending time alone with friends of opposite sex, because not everyone can establish and keep their boundaries.
As we say in Serbia, "the devil doesn't toil or sweat, he awaits".
I think jobs like that the girls get harassed a lot and start becoming repulsed by male attention. Although you'll always have the occasional floozy who'd be willing to blow the whole squad, but you shouldn't be with a girl like that in the first place!
I think it is real.What about cheating emotionally? Is that even a real thing or some crap made up by men to justify their physical affairs? Some could argue that the 'floozy' doesn't need to blow the whole squad, she can get more satisfaction by engaging emotionally with a male colleague or friend.
Thanks, man. Good thread and an interesting read.I like this answer.
What about cheating emotionally? Is that even a real thing or some crap made up by men to justify their physical affairs? Some could argue that the 'floozy' doesn't need to blow the whole squad, she can get more satisfaction by engaging emotionally with a male colleague or friend.
it used to be normal. its only recently that people are on this whole hanging out with members of the opposite sex as friends while in relationships thing.I think it is worse and women are more prone to it. Not that any form of cheating is better, but physical attraction is one thing, if one catches feelings for someone else, it is over. It's going to lead to sex eventually anyway.
With that said, it's so weird to think about how human relationships work, we have to restrict enjoying another person's company in a way.
it used to be normal. its only recently that people are on this whole hanging out with members of the opposite sex as friends while in relationships thing.
only if he were gay