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I don't have any talents. I think I'm average athletically although if I'm being honest I think my coordination is below average which is why I never really got into ball sports. I might be somewhat naturally stronger and muscular than most guys, but it's not by a huge margin either. I'm not musically talented and my singing is absolutely mediocre. So is my dancing. So is my writing. I don't think I'm stupid, but I'm definitely not a genius either. I was never bad enough at my jobs to get fired, but I never excelled and stood out either. I'm just socially skilled enough to not be totally awkward in social situations. I'm short and (maybe slightly above) average looking, and make just enough money to have a "normal" life.
I'm in my 30s I still haven't found anything I'm really talented at and everything I do just seems "passable." I'm a passable person.. I guess I should count my blessings I'm at not at least terrible. It kind of sucks not knowing what you're good at, assuming I even have a talent.
Anyone else feel this way? Is this most people? Did anyone find their talent later in life?
You are going to get a bunch of posts of people lowkey bragging in this thread, but in truth, most people are average at most things. Furthermore, they delude themselves: 90% of guys will say they are "above average looking" and at least "above average" athletically which is, of course, impossible.
But hey, based just on your post, your grammar and writing skills are well above the internet average, making you a good sherdog poster. Furthermore, you seem to have some self-awareness which is also something that many people lack.