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Sure. People cheat.
But what is laughable is that a certain group of males think they can prevent their gals from cheating by not allowing them to have male friends that they socialize with.
They puff up their chests and proclaim themselves more Alpha because 'they would not allow it', lol.
You have to be painfully stupid and willing to lie to yourself to cover up your insecurity if you think you are preventing a woman who wants to cheat, from cheating by 'not allowing her...' to do anything. Women can get sex anywhere and anytime at the drop of hte hat and her man is not preventing shit. She has to prevent it.
That kind of view of your partner as well seems much more likely to push them into someone elses arms/bed as well.
Honestly I tend to think a big issue when it comes to the old "can men and women be friends" debate tends to be that theres difference between how the genders view friendship. I mean yes this is a generalisation but I would say that female friendships are often closer to relationships in terms of their openness/closeness, if the same thing happens in womens friendships with men who aren't as used to this you can get crossed wires.
It doesn't mean friendships can't stay just that but when they don't I think its more than just the idea that two people of opposite genders who get along can't help but sleep with each other.