I have answered it over and over but you are too daft to understand the answer.
In your world you try to create the same good home environment I suggest to inspire her to not cheat AND YOU BAN her from having male friends in an attempt to control her AND SHE STILL CHOOSES TO CHEAT.
What makes you think you can stop it?
Stop fuckin asking me what I am doing to STOP her from cheating as if that is a flaw or failing in my scenario. I've said a thousand times that NOTHING you do or i do, NOTHING, can STOP a woman who is inclined to cheat from cheating. Nothing you have offered, NOTHING, is any better than what I offer and in fact due to a lack of TRUST is considered worse.
So lets accept that neither of us, NOTHING can prevent or control a woman to not cheat.
So then what? What can you do to reduce the chance of her cheating? What can you do to create a better environment where she might not want to cheat? What can you do increase the odds of fidelity? Trust is one of the biggest factors and that is undeniable no matter how much that terrifies you due to the immense damage you drag around with you.
The overall message you are presenting is correct: Nothing can stop a determined cheater from cheating. That is 1000% true.
No argument. You have an excellent point there, I respect and acknowledge your intelligence on the matter.
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I see that some others are not so much disagreeing with your statement, it's more the recognition that not every potential cheater is a determined juggernaut with an end goal of cheating in mind or intention, male or especially female.
It's not a binary, 1 or 0, all-or-nothing scenario for most people or women. Almost all women operate somewhere inbetween, in an undefined haze, as they prefer to.
A few of them ARE pre-determined all the way to one side (scheming infidelity) or the other (militant faithfulness), but this is rare. Inbetween, on an ever-floating point, in a range gauged and influenced subjectively by emotions, is what it is like for the overwhelming majority of people and even moreso for females.
Let's look at cheating on diets. You could say "if a woman on a diet wants to eat 2 pints of Ben & Jerry's, she'll eat 2 pints of Ben & Jerry's." But that is not the entire model of reality. If you keep snacks around the house, statistically you are much more likely to cheat on your diet than if you only stock healthy foods. Most women are not adamant about stocking a fridge full of cheat foods when they are on a diet. That kind of thing.
^^*I've had women thank me at work for removing plates of cake and brownies from their sight at work parties because they were on diets. They were making tortured noises. Sincerely THANKED
Also women hate when men look at other women, even a glance. But there's a reason why you (in particular, even) wouldn't be advising those same women (let's say you know them and they're your work friends) "if a guy wants to look and then cheat, he will look and then cheat on you, nothing you can do about it, it's definitely gonna happen now"
Having pre-agreed-upon boundaries is healthy for both members of an adult relationship. If they still are determined to wander outside those boundaries they helped set, then it's definitely too late. But if there is a blip here and there (momentary glance), that's to be expected and is not wrong to be communicated about and worked out-- it doesn't guarantee or even necessarily indicate that that person is going to cheat. There's still a functional reason women will reign it in, though.