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I'd never leave full control of name picking for my son to my wife, so i wouldn't of been in this situation to begin with.
And if she came up with some weird name then I would have asked her where that came from before vetoing it.
But if i was in this guy's situation...this would be grounds for divorce for me. I'd get her to change the name first, and then dump her.
That just has red flags aĺl over it. You secretly name our son after a previous lover, AND you still have some feelings for him? Fuck that. If that dude somehow crossed her path again, she would drop those panties in a heartbeat.
I could never trust a person like that, nor be with someone that was that tone deaf.
And if she came up with some weird name then I would have asked her where that came from before vetoing it.
But if i was in this guy's situation...this would be grounds for divorce for me. I'd get her to change the name first, and then dump her.
That just has red flags aĺl over it. You secretly name our son after a previous lover, AND you still have some feelings for him? Fuck that. If that dude somehow crossed her path again, she would drop those panties in a heartbeat.
I could never trust a person like that, nor be with someone that was that tone deaf.